ARE YOU LEADING EVERYONE ELSE… BUT QUIETLY LOSING YOURSELF?

Sometimes we lose ourselves suddenly- through heartbreak or life’s unexpected upheavals. Other times it happens quietly- through over giving and the slow slide into depletion.

Somewhere along the way…you’ve started to lose yourself.

It doesn’t have to be this way

This is the story I’ve lived. I came to see that this was the choice in front of me.

Lead myself. Or lose myself.

The map I’ve created is to help you lead yourself and others, despite life’s setbacks, without losing yourself in the process.

The New Book by Niky Hamilton

SELF-ish Leadership

How to Lead Without Losing Yourself.

The Rise UP Guide.

There’s a version of leadership no one prepares women for. The kind where life doesn’t go to plan. Where you’re navigating pressure, grief, uncertainty, burnout, relationship struggles, or emotional exhaustion… while still being expected to lead your family, your team, your business—or all three.

So, you keep going. You push through. You carry the load. You hold it together.

And behind the scenes? You’re exhausted. Overwhelmed. Quietly losing yourself.

Until one day you realise: Something needs to change.

I’ve written this for you.

This book is your guide.

About Niky

Meet Niky Hamilton

Niky Hamilton is a speaker, physiotherapist, leadership coach, and retreat facilitator helping women build emotional resilience and lead with clarity, confidence, and heart.

Her work was shaped through her own journey of navigating profound loss while building an award-winning physiotherapy business - an experience that transformed the way she understands leadership, resilience, and self-trust.

Through this journey, Niky developed the RISE UP framework, a powerful and practical approach that helps women restore their energy, reconnect to themselves, and lead through life’s challenges without losing who they are.

With more than 20 years’ experience supporting women’s health and wellbeing, Niky brings a deeply human and grounded perspective to self-leadership, emotional resilience, and sustainable success.

She is also a certified Dr Demartini Facilitator, NLP Master Coach, and has completed training in HeartMath and Brené Brown’s Dare to Lead program. Combining evidence-based strategies with emotional intelligence and authentic leadership, Niky equips women with the tools to navigate life’s messiest moments with calm, courage, and clarity.

Her work is devoted to helping women rise through adversity with resilience, self-trust, and magnetic leadership.

Inside the book

✨ This book will help you

  • Stop leading from depletion and rebuild your internal fuel

  • Regulate your emotions so you can respond instead of react

  • Quiet self-doubt and reconnect with your confidence

  • Set boundaries without guilt or over-explaining

  • Find clarity and direction when life feels uncertain

  • Lead your family, work, and relationships without losing yourself in the process

Words from women who’ve risen

What readers are saying

A note from me

I’m Niky — and this is for you.

I’m Niky, and my mission is to help women build resilient leadership through life’s hardest seasons - without losing themselves in the process.

Because many of us know what it feels like to carry it all.

Leading a business. Supporting a team. Holding together family, work, relationships, and life… while quietly feeling stretched thin beneath the surface.

We don’t talk enough about this kind of leadership.

Not the polished version.

The real version.

The version shaped through burnout, grief, overwhelm, setbacks, and the invisible weight of responsibility.

And yet, this may be the most courageous leadership of all.

I know this path because I’ve walked it too.

After building an award-winning physiotherapy business through the deepest season of grief in my life, I discovered something powerful:

Resilience is not about bouncing back.

It’s about transforming through what life asks of us.

I learned that:

operating from depletion serves no one

emotional resilience is essential for sustainable leadership

courageous conversations matter

self-leadership changes everything

and we can rise through life’s messiness with clarity, courage, and self-trust

Today, I believe leadership requires both- a clear mind and an open heart.

The mind for direction, strategy, and clarity.

The heart for courage, connection, empathy, and truth.

MindHearted™ Leadership.

The Rise UP Guide was created to help women reconnect to themselves, build inner leadership, and rise through life’s challenges with resilience, self-trust, and magnetic leadership.

Because true leadership starts within.

And it starts with the first step, permission to be selfish.

ARE YOU LEADING EVERYONE ELSE…

and quietly losing yourself?

Sometimes we lose ourselves suddenly through life's unexpected upheavals.

Other times it happens quietly through over giving and a slow slide into depletion.

It doesn't have to be this way.

This is the story I've lived. I came to see that this was the choice in front of me.

Lead myself. Or lose myself.

The map I've created is to help you lead yourself and others, despite life's setbacks, without losing yourself in the process.

Is this you?

This book is for you if…

  • You’re strong, capable and quietly exhausted.

  • You feel stuck, depleted or overwhelmed.

  • Perhaps life isn’t turning out as planned right now, and you know it’s time. Time to lead yourself differently. You’re just not sure how.

  • You’ve tried counselling and sharing circles and are tired of talk therapy.

  • You’ve reached a point where you’re asking — what next? Maybe even asking — who am I now through all of this?

  • You want clear practical authentic steps from a woman who has walked the path.

You don’t need a motivational quote.

You need space, strategy.

You need a clear pathway forward.

This book was written for you. So you can find clarity, confidence and courage to lead without losing yourself.

Because doors open for those who are ready to step through.

The story behind the book

Here’s Why I Wrote This Book

After the loss of my son, I found myself trying to lead a business, support my team, care for the people around me — and somehow keep functioning while carrying profound grief.

On the outside, I looked capable.

On the inside, I was exhausted. Foggy. Emotionally overwhelmed.

And yet, like so many women, I kept pushing through.

I tried counselling. Psychology. Talk therapy. And while parts of it helped, eventually I got tired of this approach and found myself asking — what next? I needed a pathway forward. To conquer the depletion and find direction.

But I couldn’t find one.

Which led me on a ten-year search.

This book is the guide I wished I had. The guide to help me conquer depletion, find clear direction, learn how to set boundaries. The guide to help me figure out how to steady myself and maintain my energy whilst leading others. The guide to help me manage emotions, calm stress and become clear minded and open hearted — despite the mess of it.

This book accumulates ten years of the search. Neuroscience, emotional regulation, NLP coaching. Leadership training, mindfulness, breathwork. Mind and heart centred strategies. Practical tools. Resilience. All in a step by step framework.

Life’s losses come in many forms for women. Whether it’s a sudden moment: family breakdown, grief, separation. Or a slow slide: overloaded, over giving, until we reach a moment we know we need to change.

Sometimes life can fall apart behind the scenes, but you’re still expected to keep leading anyway. This book is for you.

It’s about learning how to lead ourselves through life’s challenges without losing who we are. I wrote this book because I wanted women to know there is another way. A way to lead with clarity, courage, boundaries, emotional resilience, and heart. A way to stop leading on empty. A way to rebuild from within.

And most importantly —

A way to rise through life’s setbacks without abandoning yourself in the process.

Order today & receive

You’ll also receive these bonuses

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BONUS 1

The Rise UP Workbook

A tailored self reflection workbook to go alongside your Self-ish Leadership book so you can immerse yourself in learning and transformation.

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BONUS 2

The Rise UP Daily Planner

An easy to use daily tool to keep your momentum and motivation.

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BONUS 3

FREE Ticket — Reset for Overloaded Women

A FREE ticket to the next online one day virtual retreat. Valued at $1,497.

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BONUS 4

FREE 5-Day Leadership Reset

One hour a day for 5 days of live group coaching to guide you forward, calm stress, navigate emotions and build clear direction. Valued at $997.

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BONUS 5

Bonus Masterclass

3 Steps Toward Calm Confidence. A FREE bonus masterclass valued at $197.

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BONUS 6

3-Part Video Library

Lifetime access to your self-paced video library to calm overwhelm — practical tools you can implement today, directly from Niky.

Here’s everything you’ll get

When you order the Self-ish Leadership Book today

  • The Self-ish Leadership Physical Book $29.95 VALUE
  • Bonus #1: The Rise UP Workbook $197 VALUE
  • Bonus #2: The Rise UP Daily Planner $147 VALUE
  • Bonus #3: Reset for Overloaded Women — Virtual Retreat Ticket $1,497 VALUE
  • Bonus #4: 5-Day Leadership Reset (Live Group Coaching) $997 VALUE
  • Bonus #5: 3 Steps Toward Calm Confidence Masterclass $197 VALUE
  • Bonus #6: 3-Part Video Library — Calm Overwhelm $297 VALUE
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$3,361.95
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